Writing 101: Leave your writing (mark) on the wall!

Posted by Jemila On Sunday, May 31, 2009 1 comments


Hi Everyone,

Ok, most of you know me, some of you probably don't. But it's never too late to make acquaintances. That said, I have been thinking about doing this for a while now, but have never actually had the time. Guess what? It's summer, I'm done with college, and I'm willing to do this with whoever is interested. By "this" I mean writing workshops. Yes, writing workshops. A number of people on facebook and off, have mentioned to me that they are interested in writing, but are not really sure about how to go about it. I believe that like everything else, writing can be a fulfilling experience...if you make it your own.

Sure, there are general standards that are recommended like good grammar, vocabulary, sentence structure etc, but at the end of the day, you own your style of writing. That said, if anyone is interested in these writing workshops, just leave a comment below this note or send me an email at jabdulai@gmail.com, with your main email address and we can get to work.

How would this work? Thank God for the virtual world lol. Basically, in the upcoming weeks I'll try to give some general pointers on how to write, dispel some misconceptions concerning writing (eg. using difficult words makes u a better writer), and share my writing experience. Then once you guys have the basics, you can give writing a go-- whatever form you wanna pursue: article writing, poetry, free writing etc. I'll do my best to look over what you do, edit it, give you CONSTRUCTIVE criticism, and we can do a couple more of those until you feel substantially comfortable with your writing. After that, if there is any particular area of writing you're interested in, I can help you out (if I already have some knowledge of it) or we can experience it together (if I've never encountered it before).

This is gonna be a start up project, so depending on the kind of response I get, we could do this in many ways. Feel free to forward this on to people who might be interested, and if you wanna know the kind of writing I do, check out my other notes, or my blog: http://mysterieuxe.blogspot.com . I hope many of you join me on what I hope will be a great learning experience for all of us :)

Best,
Jemila


Swine Flu Prevention: A Tutorial

Posted by Jemila On Tuesday, May 19, 2009 2 comments

Excerpt from Joanne Creighton's (Mount Holyoke College President) message to the College community on Swine Flu Prevention:

"Frequent hand washing with soap and water when possible or use of hand sanitizers. Hand washing should last through one singing of "Happy Birthday."

A JOY (Jemila-Otema-Yaba) Production:



Please note: There are other ways to prevent swine flu, but the producers figured this is one of the most basic ones that everyone can partake in, hence the focus on hand washing. Contact your nearest clinic for additional info on Swine Flu symptoms and prevention.


Doing Transit Sucks! Big Time! (Flashback to 3yrs, 8 months ago)

Posted by Jemila On Saturday, May 16, 2009 3 comments

So I'm supposedly *attempting* to pack. And I came across one of my lil' notebooks. Actually, about 4 years old now. And it's the book I wrote in when I was sitting in a Frankfurt airport terminal trying to pass 13 hours of transit time on my way to Boston and Mount Holyoke College! Amazing the things we say to ourselves. Check it out. Lol. (As for the picture....we gotta be silly sometimes).


3 years, 8 months ago...The start of my college experience.
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About 11:30am, Frankfurt

As usual, when things get a lil' too unbearable, then one goes a-scribbling. I've been sitting here at Frankfurt Main close to 6 hours (!) now and God knows I'm even tired of waiting till 3:00pm when I can start the formalities for getting to Boston. Get this, I'm sitting in a seat which doesn't allow me much space to sleep (yea, and Mr. Jet Lag's decided to show up now!); I haven't eaten in eons (mainly cos I was asleep when "dinner" was served on the plane); I can't walk around cos I have to look after my hand luggage; I can't buy anything to eat/call anyone cos I don't have the right currency; and every single time I do succeed in getting some shut-eye, I have to re-remind myself where I am and why I'm sitting with a bunch of strangers! Oh, and smart 0l' me forgot to bring spare batteries for my CD player and I can't buy some either (not here anyway).

So, I'm sullenly (and dreadingly) watching my battery run down and boredom seep in! I really really wish I knew somoene here I could talk to, but alas (and when situations get extremely discouraging, you start speaking Old English!Lol) there isn't anyone. I made friends with my seat mate...he even invited me over to his house to pass the transit time (and I'm like "Oh c'mon! My first test so soon?!") But cha, from the way he was looking and talking, he wasn't referring to having tea over at his house, followed by idle chit-chat. Nada. In his own words, "I want us to really make contact." I say, "Nah, thanks, but no thanks...I'll just stay at the airport." He's like "Why, are you engaged?" Like hell yea I am...to my promises to myself! Besides, he was drunk.

The other friend I made was while I was doing transit time. He's South African. We talked loads; politics, Africa, careers, religion, etc. and that helped pass time. Unfortunately, his flight was before mine...waaay before mine. And he only has three more hours of flight time--he's heading to Berlin. Okay, so I reckon I'm all done huh>>wait! Course not! Almost forgot. You should see the lil'uns here (I mean the babies, kids, children?) They looking all cute dragging their lil hand luggages and tryna lose their parents. Lol. One mother actually had a string tied to her daughter's arm (via a handband kinda thing), so the kid couldn't stray too far. OH NO! My battery just ran out!! What to do...what to do! I can't leave my seat, else I might not get it back, and I can't sit here and wallow in my boredom, else...Darn, I don't really have a choice do I? Hmm...Doing transit sucks! Big time!


On Love, Life and Living...

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So it's official! I'm done taking undergraduate classes! With exactly 8 days to graduation, there is a lot on my mind, and a lot I would love to share about this AMAZING journey. But, everything's a brewing storm of emotions at the moment, so I'll wait until after graduation, when everything seeps in, and then I'll make that post. 


For now... I absolutely adore Paulo Coelho. His books are so inspiring, real and simple. I love the simplicity of his writing and I am always motivated by his words. I came across one of his works, and apparently, there's a free download of this one "Maktub" and some of this other stuff on his official website: http://www.paulocoelho.com/engl/dow.shtml#ingles 

Here are some of my favorite exercepts from his work "Maktub" (which means "It is written" in Arabic.") They are a whole bunch, so I will post them in installments of ten. Enjoy!

1. Do not always try to be consistent.  Saint Paul, after all, said, "The wisdom of the world is madness in the eyes of God."   To be consistent is always to wear a tie that matches one's socks.  It is to have the same opinions tomorrow as one has today. And the movement of the planet?  Where is it? So long as you do no harm to another, change your opinion once in a while.  Contradict yourself without being embarrassed. This is your right.  It doesn't matter what others think -- because that's what they will think, in any case. So, relax.  Let the universe move about.  Discover the joy of surprising yourself.  "God selected the crazy things on the earth so as to embarrass the wise men," said Saint Paul.

2. The master says: "Today would be a good day for doing something out of the ordinary.  We could, for example, dance through the streets on our way to work. Look directly into the eyes of a stranger, and speak of love at first sight.  Give the boss an idea that may seem ridiculous, an idea we've never mentioned before.  The Warriors of the Light allow themselves such days. "Today, we could cry over some ancient injustices that still stick in our craw.  We could phone someone we vowed never to speak to again (but from whom we would love to receive a message on the answering machine).  Today could be considered a day outside the script that we write every morning. "Today, any fault will be permitted and forgiven.  Today is a day to enjoy life."

3. The master says:  "Make use of every blessing that God gave you today.  A blessing cannot be saved.  There is no bank where we can deposit blessings received, to use them when we see fit.  If you do not use them, they will be irretrievably lost. "God knows that we are creative artists when it comes to our lives.  On one day, he gives us clay for sculpting, on another, brushes and canvas, or a pen.  But we can never use clay on our canvas, nor pens in sculpture. "Each day has its own miracle.  Accept the blessings, work, and create your minor works of art today.   "Tomorrow you will receive others."

4. The master says: "Many people are fearful of happiness.  For such persons, to be content in life means they must change a number of their habits -- and lose their sense of identity.  "Often we become indignant at the good things that befall us.  We do not accept them, because to do so causes us to feel that we are in God's debt. " "We think: 'Better not to drink from the chalice of happiness, because, when it is empty, we will suffer greatly.'  "Out of a fear of shrinking, we fail to grow. Out of a fear of weeping, we fail to laugh."

5. We are all concerned with taking action, doing things, resolving problems, providing for others.  We are always trying to plan something, conclude something else, discover a third. There is nothing wrong with that -- after all, that is how we build and modify the world.  But the act of Adoration is also a part of life. To stop from time to time, to escape one's self, and to stand silent before the Universe. To kneel down, body and soul.  Without asking for something, without thinking, without even giving thanks for anything.  Just to experience the warmth of the love that surrounds us.  At such moments, unexpected tears may appear -- tears neither of happiness nor sadness.  Do not be surprised at that.  It is a gift.  The tears are cleansing your soul.

 6. While the master was traveling to spread the word of God, the house in which he lived with his disciples burned down.   "He entrusted the house to us, and we didn't take proper care," said one of the disciples.  They immediately began to rebuild on what remained after the fire, but the master returned earlier than expected, and saw what they were doing. "So, things are looking up: a new house," he said happily. One of the disciples, embarrassed, told him what had actually happened; that where they had all lived together had been consumed by fire.  "I don't understand," said the master.  "What I am seeing is men who have faith in life, beginning a new chapter.  Those who have lost everything they owned are in a better position than many others, because, from that moment on, things can only improve."

7. The master says:  "If you are traveling the road of your dreams, be committed to it.  Do not leave an open door to be used as an excuse such as, 'Well, this isn't exactly what I wanted.'  Therein are contained the seeds of defeat. "Walk your path.  Even if your steps have to be uncertain, even if you know that you could be doing it better.  If you accept your possibilities in the present, there is no doubt that you will improve in the future.  But if you deny that you have limitations, you will never be rid of them. "Confront your path with courage, and don't be afraid of the criticism of others.  And, above all, don't allow yourself to become paralyzed by self-criticism.      "God will be with you on your sleepless nights, and will dry your tears with His love.  God is for the valiant."

8. We go out into the world in search of our dreams and ideals.  Often we make inaccessible that which is within our reach.  When we realize the error, we feel we have wasted our time, seeking in the distance what was close at hand.  We blame ourselves for making such a mistake, for our useless search and for the problems we have caused. The master says:     "Although the treasure may be buried in your house, you will find it only if you leave in search of it.  If Peter had not experienced the pain of rejection, he would not have been chosen as the head of the Church.  If the prodigal son had not abandoned everything, he would not have been given a feast by his father. "There are certain things in our lives that carry a seal that says: 'You will appreciate my value only after you have lost me...and recovered me.'  It does no good to try to shorten the path."

9. In a bar in a remote village in Spain, close to the city of Olite, there is a sign placed there by the owner.  "Just as I succeeded in finding all the answers, all the questions changed." The master says: "We are always concerned with finding answers.  We feel that answers are important to understand what life means. "It is more important to live fully, and allow time to reveal to us the secrets of our existence.  If we are too concerned with making sense of life, we prevent nature from acting, and we become unable to read God's signs."

10. The master says: "Notice how certain words were formed so as to show their meaning clearly.     "Let us take the word "preoccupation."  It can be divided in two: "pre" and "occupation."  It means to occupy oneself with something before it happens. "Who, in the entire universe, could have the gift of occupying himself with a thing that has not yet happened? Never be preoccupied.  Be attentive to your destiny and to your path.  Learn everything you need to know in order to handle the bright sword entrusted to you.  Pay attention to how your friends, your masters and your enemies fight. "Train yourself sufficiently, but do not commit the worst of errors: believing that you know what kind of blow your adversary is going to deliver."

 Photo Source: http://www.redbubble.com/people/enjoylife/art/276535-10-sailboat-against-a-beautiful-sunset

         


School & Work (Mash Writes...)

Posted by Jemila On Sunday, May 03, 2009 3 comments


Dear Diary,


I’m sitting here and finally packing all those school stuff away. I should be overjoyed….generally, yes. I haven’t lost my head yet…..but I’m just thinking. Thinking how much I assumed school to be another avenue by which my peeps could make my life miserable. School sucks! How many times haven’t I heard that? Well for the most part, I’m afraid it’s true. The teachers were sometimes (ok, a little more than sometimes) “yawa”. Always last to class but first to the DC. Oh yeah, sure punish him if he does wrong but don’t notice if he’s making A’s. It’s amazing how some of ‘em played security men so efficiently and yet, were so inept at teaching. If it weren’t for my possies and a couple of my teachers, it would have been hell. We had to survive on uneatable “gaso”, “bolus” and tampico. But Mama Tess sure could cook some mean rice at “goase”. Sports and entertainment was also tight, at least it made you forget the wahala for a lil while. But hey, if we made it through that, what can stop us now? The hustling days are over!


Observation: Sometimes we downplay the importance of secondary school but ultimately, it is serious business. It is, more or less, the gateway to the university and therefore equips you with the necessary skills one needs to deal with the stress which comes with university life.


*yawa- useless   

*DC- disciplinary committee  

*possies-friends   

*gaso- food eaten in the dinning hall (if you can call it that) 

*bolus- kenkey 

*tampico- orange drink 

*goase-an eating place situated under a tree

*Wahala – struggle



School & Work (Afi Writes...)

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Dear Diary,


I daresay that this will be my shortest entry ever! I went to school, had a great day and came home. End of story. Okay, okay- as if its ever that easy with me- a whole bunch of stuff happened today. And I’m telling you, every single one of them were mere coincidences. I had nothing to do with them….at least not directly. Here’s what happened:

I walked into History class today fashionably late. And I do mean fashion-ably late. Even Mr. Chizuyika who has absolutely no fashion sense can vouch for me on that one. I was looking oh-so drop-dead gorgeous that he actually dropped his chalk. He then proceeded to make such a fuss about my “habitual” tardiness to his class. Who can blame me? 8:30 am on Monday mornings is a little too much don’t you think? And besides, I’m sure the fuss he made was just a cover-up for him dropping his chalk at the sight of me. He does have a reputation to protect you know! (As if)


Anyways, for some strange reason, my IQ was on a negative-something today. I didn’t get a single answer right to redeem my image! Plus, I got a C on my French pop quiz! Now that is serious! I’m a straight A student-okay, maybe not in Ga, but generally, I am. Right?- In the cafeteria, Twumasi decided his plantain and beans looked better in my hair. Soon enough, kenkey and fish, fried yam and of course, good ol’ fufu were doing acrobatics all over the cafeteria. Was kind of messy, but it had been quite a while since I had a good food fight. Lol!


Somehow, I forgot that tension relieving; mind enhancing, rejuvenating food fights also spell trouble. I ended up in serious trouble- cleaning the girl’s restroom for a week is no joke, believe me. What’s nerve wrecking though is the fact that I have to do it all alone. As if Salmartha and the other girls did not do a bit of throwing themselves.


All in all, my day’s been very trouble-filled. But get this. I’d rather have this any day than to have one of those long, boring days that drag and go on for eternity. Well, I have to hit the books now. I do intend to ensure that my IQ level never drops that low again. It’s not healthy. Talk to you later!


OBSERVATION

School is all about lessons. But unlike what many of us think, these lessons don’t necessarily have to be in the typical classroom setting of dedicated teachers and studious students. Learning is an all-day, every-day, everywhere, anytime affair. Of course, we may not always like the lessons we learn; but all in all, they’re for a purpose. Who knows? Maybe someday you could be standing in front of a podium in a great hall addressing students about a lesson you learnt in school that took you all through life.



School & Work (Bolade Writes...)

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Dear Diary,


I just had to escape from all the chaos going on around me. We’re preparing for our annual speech and prize-giving day and the already-high stress level just increased by 100%.


This term has been like so packed, I haven’t really gotten the chance to study. I wouldn’t be so agitated if it weren’t for the fact that exams is right after the speech day. Darn, that’s barely a week away.


Sometimes I just wish I could stop everything. Stop being the President of the Writers and Debaters club, stop being the captain of the school basketball team, and most of all, stop being a student. Physics is already killing me as it is and now with the speech day and its numerous activities, I’m barely living. Even a zombie has got to have more life in it than I do right now.


But when I think about Mum and Dad, my favorite teacher Mr. Atiaga and all those people who are expecting something from me, I just can’t drop it all and leave like that. I just can’t.


Anyways, as always, you’ve made me feel better. Writing in you is really rejuvenating you know. Okay. So now I’m fresh, I’m clean. Look out world,cos here I come…


ADVICE


Nobody said having an education is easy. That’s what makes it so valuable. Being able to go through school in itself is an achievement. Its to bad though that not everybody is privileged enough to go to school. No matter which school you find yourself in, and no matter the prejudices that may exist, its necessary to strive on until the very end. Even if there’s nobody (and there’s always somebody; even if you may not know the person) who you would just like to succeed for, just think of that street child who could have been in your place and strive to succeed in order not to waste your chance. Its not easy, but if somebody was able to do it, so can you. It’s a matter of choice. Choose to succeed.



School & Work (Tungtaeya Writes...)

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Dear Diary,

I reckon you’ve been restless with anticipation about the analysis of my trial period at work? Well, here it comes….


Firstly, I think I like the job very much! (Yea, so much such that I’m already dreading August when I’ll have to leave to go to school!) I mean, what more could a girl ask for? I’ve got a terrific boss, a great working environment, state-of-the-art facilities, interesting experiences to tell my grandchildren about,(don’t be giving me those looks, yea?), profitable usage of my time-I think I would have died from boredom if I didn’t have thins job- and of course, l’argent.


I guess you’re pretty impressed with all the stuff I just mentioned yea? Well, sit tight cos there’s more….


Now, to the not-so-encouraging part. Work can be addictive! (O.k. maybe it depends on the kind of person you are; whether you’re… lemme stop before I branch into psychology. Lol!) I mean, I want to have the working experience AND I’ve kinda fallen in love with the job, so what do I do? I put my all and all in whatever I’m doing and I guess I sometimes forget to take a breather?


Side that, we’re talking about me dealing with issues I NEVER contemplated before!-Does this outfit look professional enough, did I remember to switch off the AC before leaving the office? Oh no! I’m gonna have to redo this whole document again because I forgot to save it.- Talk about broadening my outlook on the working world! Lol! Anyways, here’s a tip for you (If you really value your time, energy, the office’s resources and all that, you’ll pay heed to this) NEVER forget to save whatever work you are doing on the computer. We ARE in Africa you know! Lights off dey.)


I guess my work experience is quite synonymous with my life. Ups and downs all over. Hey, its part of life, yea? At least, I learnt how to do faxes and print addresses on envelopes. (yea, I never knew how to before I started work. That’s between us though…sshh.)


Babes, I’ma step out now. Gotta finish this document I’m working on by Thursday. Don’t give me that sullen look! A girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do, you heard!


LESSON

Work really IS synonymous with life. There are the good days when you get all or most of your tasks done (all ready and packaged to go) and there are the not-so-good days when you think/feel that you’re not in your element and everything seems to go wrong (Especially when you have stubborn printers which don’t want to obey a SIMPLE command…PRINT!)


I’ve come to realize that, just as we do with our lives, we should be (or try to be) realistic about our jobs and strive to achieve our goals.


*lemme- let me 

*gotta- got to 

*gonna- going to 

*l’argent- French for “money”

*kinda- kind of